Unveiling the Journey: Exploring the Stages of Emotional Attachment
I have considered emotional connections in relationships for the past few weeks as it is a topic that comes up with almost every couple that I work with. Along with communication, this is the most common issue that comes up when couples are seeking marital therapy with me.
It has been well-researched that good communication is a foundation that supports solid emotional connection, but how does the process work?
What ingredients may be included in creating emotional attachments, and what happens if those steps are skipped or deteriorate over time?
What Happens When I’m No Longer Physically Attracted to My Partner?
The existence of the “honeymoon” phase is one of the most commonly denied or unacknowledged phase in relationships. We know it exists, and we know that we’re likely to exit it eventually (especially if we’re not proactively working on ourselves and our relationships!), but new couples deep in the throws of the honeymoon phase are usually the first to deny its validity.
And honestly - it makes sense. When we’re in the beginning stages of a new relationship, we’re excited!
8 Ways To Get Your Relationship Back on Track, Today!
There is a kindness movement happening in our society now that’s promoting and encouraging people to complete acts of kindness for others. Often referred to as “Random Acts of Kindness”, due to the targeting of strangers, we see these stories on social media, and even on the news, and a lot of times we’re easily inspired to take action with small and simple, yet effective acts that spread joy and positivity to those around us.
So why do we do it?
5 Common Obstacles That Keeps Couples From Dating Each Other and Tips to Overcome Them.
When you first start seeing someone, dating is easy. Everything is new about that person. Every experience together is new. You want to make that extra effort and make everything special. You make plans in advance.
But once you’re with someone for a while, especially if you are living with that person, date nights seem to be pushed by the wayside. The responsibilities of real life seem to get in the way and taking time for one another seems to happen less and less. You see each other everyday, why put purposeful energy into planning something, right?
4 Surprisingly Easy Ways to Say “Yes” and Increase Intimacy Right Now
Let's face it: life is busy… and getting busier. As a licensed marriage and family therapist in Downers Grove, I see it all the time. Sometimes, it feels like everyone needs something from us: kids, family, bosses, and friends. When we are looking for areas to lighten our load, it’s often our relationship that gets put on the back burner.
It’s easy to take our partners for granted. We can justify missing opportunities to connect with excuses like “We need to recharge,” or “Zoning out in front of the TV is just what I need tonight,” or ”We’ll spend time together this weekend.”